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What Are the Early Signs of Anxiety That Adults Often Ignore?
Anxiety in adults often shows up quietly—through tension, overthinking, irritability, or difficulty relaxing—rather than obvious panic. These early signs are easy to overlook, especially for high-achievers or caregivers. Recognizing subtle patterns can be the first step toward support, self-understanding, and healthier coping. Therapy at Alder Grove Counseling helps adults notice these signs and build resilience before stress becomes overwhelming.
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Jan 203 min read


What Are the Best Ways Parents Can Support a Child After Trauma?
When a child experiences trauma—whether from an accident, loss, abuse, or witnessing distressing events—it can change the way they view the world. Parents often feel heartbroken watching their child struggle, unsure of how to help. The good news is that with understanding, patience, and professional guidance, healing is possible. At Alder Grove Counseling , we believe that recovery after trauma starts with compassionate support both at home and in therapy. Here’s how parents
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Dec 23, 20253 min read


What Are the Mental Health Benefits of Therapy Dogs in Counseling?
Therapy dogs have a remarkable ability to bring warmth, comfort, and connection into counseling spaces. Whether it’s a gentle nudge, a wagging tail, or the steady presence of a calm companion, therapy dogs help clients feel more relaxed and supported during therapy sessions. At Alder Grove Counseling , we’ve seen firsthand how the simple presence of a therapy dog can transform the therapeutic experience for children, teens, and adults alike. The Science Behind Therapy Dogs a
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Oct 14, 20253 min read


What Are the Most Common Relationship Struggles Couples Face, and How Can Couples Therapy Help?
Every couple experiences challenges. While love and commitment lay the foundation of a relationship, daily stressors, communication differences, and life transitions can cause tension. Left unresolved, these issues may lead to resentment, distance, or recurring conflicts. The good news? Couples therapy offers a proven way for partners to work through struggles, rebuild trust, and strengthen their bond. At Alder Grove Counseling, with offices in Naperville and Downers Grove ,
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Sep 11, 20254 min read


Is It Childhood Anxiety or Just Normal Worry?
As a parent, it's natural to worry when your child seems fearful, clingy, or unusually quiet. But how do you know if it’s just a passing phase—or a sign of childhood anxiety ? What Is Childhood Anxiety? Childhood anxiety is more than just occasional nervousness. It’s a mental health condition where children experience persistent, excessive fear or worry that interferes with their daily life, relationships, and development. While some worry is part of growing up, anxiety beco
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Jul 28, 20252 min read


Understanding High-Functioning Anxiety: What It Is and When to Seek Help
High-functioning anxiety is often invisible. On the outside, someone may seem successful, organized, and high-achieving—but on the inside, they’re battling constant worry, fear of failure, and burnout. Unlike traditional anxiety, high-functioning anxiety can hide behind a polished facade, making it harder to recognize—and even harder to address. At Aldergrove Counseling , with offices in Naperville and Downers Grove, IL , we work with many clients who identify with high-funct
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Jun 20, 20252 min read


What Is EMDR Therapy and How Can It Help You Heal from Trauma?
When people search for trauma therapy options, one term often stands out: EMDR therapy. But many ask the same question—what is EMDR and how does it actually work? At Aldergrove Counseling, we offer EMDR therapy in both Naperville and Downers Grove, IL to help individuals process trauma and difficult life experiences in a safe, structured way. Whether you’ve experienced a single traumatic event or complex emotional wounds, EMDR can be a transformative healing method. What Is E
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Jun 3, 20252 min read


Breaking the Stigma: Why Talking About Mental Health Matters
At Alder Grove Counseling , with locations in Downers Grove and Naperville, IL , we believe that mental health awareness is more than a conversation—it’s a movement. As counselors and mental health professionals, we see firsthand the impact that silence and stigma have on individuals and families. Talking openly about mental health can be life-changing, and during Mental Health Awareness Month, there's no better time to start the conversation. Why Mental Health Awareness Ma
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Apr 24, 20252 min read


Play Therapy: A Powerful Tool for Child & Family Counseling at Alder Grove Counseling
At Alder Grove Counseling, we understand that navigating the complexities of childhood and adolescence can be challenging for both children and parents. That’s why we offer play therapy as a key component of our child and family therapy services. Located in Naperville and Downers Grove, our expert team of counselors, psychologists, and social workers is dedicated to helping children and families develop healthy coping strategies and emotional resilience. In this blog, we will
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Mar 19, 20254 min read


How Parents Can Support Neurodivergent Kids
Raising a neurodivergent child can present unique challenges, but with the right support and strategies, parents can create an environment that promotes growth, understanding, and positive development. Neurodivergent treatment encompasses a range of approaches tailored to each child's needs, ensuring they receive the care and attention they deserve. In this blog, we will explore effective ways parents can support their neurodivergent kids, helping them thrive in everyday life
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Feb 14, 20252 min read


Understanding Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA): Support Parents and Providers
Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) , is a complex condition that is often misunderstood. At Alder Grove Counseling, we know how deeply parents and providers want to understand kids and provide the best care and support possible. However, when faced with PDA, it can feel like nothing works, and this often results in feeling isolated, frustrated, and exhausted. But the good news is that support and solutions are available. Gina Hines, LCPC at Alder Grove Counseling, offers co
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Feb 4, 20251 min read


How to Know When It's Time for Teen Therapy: A Parent's Guide
As a parent, watching your teenager navigate the turbulent waters of adolescence can be both rewarding and challenging. It's a time of...
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Jan 10, 20255 min read


Why Children Therapy is Essential for Mental and Emotional Well-being
Introduction: The Growing Need for Children Therapy As parents, guardians, and caregivers, one of the most important roles we have is to...
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Dec 20, 20243 min read


Rooted
Your body is not a coffin for pain to be buried in. Put it somewhere else.
-Ehime Ora
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
Aug 11, 20232 min read


Living the Questions
“Be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the questions themselves, like locked rooms and like books that are...
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Possibility
One of my grad school professors, Dr. Richardson, did an exercise that still guides my work 20 years later. He would ask a volunteer to...
Stacey Patterson, LCPC
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Valuing Enough
While the pandemic has brought many challenges, there have been some unexpected blessings along the way. For me, one of those has been...
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Wonder and Reality
My family recently visited the new alebrijes exhibit at Cantigny Park, a collection of large scale, fantastical creatures made by Mexican...
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Winter Turning into Spring
On a warm day last March, my son walked outside and nodded knowingly, stating it was the “Winter Turning into Spring,” and it was one of...
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Apr 5, 20221 min read


See No Stranger
As we take some time this month to think about and acknowledge love, we can challenge ourselves to consider ways to be loving, even when...
ginakhines
Feb 2, 20221 min read
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